Episode #241: 11 counterfeit female "qualities"
At some point in all of our lives we’ve had to introduce our girlfriends or women we're seeing or getting serious with to our friends and family in hopes of gaining some sort of approval or blessing. We're also looking for a little insight from people we trust. It's much easier to observe situations from the outside in than from the inside out so we bring her around to see if anybody can pick up red flags or slut tells or anything else that could lead to trouble down the road. Just because a man has game doesn't mean he sees everything.
The reason we do this is because we know that our relationships are much easier when the girl we’ve chosen gets the seal of approval from the people closest to us. That's always the way it's been.
But looking at things the way I do through the red pill lens I’ve come to realize that most, if not all, of what I hear from friends and loved ones about their women aren’t really qualities at all. Some of what I hear are myths, some qualities are exaggerated and grossly overrated (I talked about the myth about how important it is for your girlfriend to get along wit your friends and how overrated and unnecessary it is) and, believe it or not, some of what I hear are even red flags.
What they all have in common is that most of these so-called qualities are merely fool’s gold—a delusional spin on negative traits as a coping mechanism to the reality that there is no such thing as a quality woman in this part of the world. The sad thing is that men actually believe these qualities make her a catch and that he’s lucky to have her.