Episode #262: How to train a female to be a quality woman - Part One

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Today I’m gonna talk about how to train a female to be a quality woman. Notice I didn’t say how to train a female to BECOME a quality woman….I said how to BE a quality woman as in so long as she is with you. When left to their own devices women are self destructive meaning that if they’re not under the guidance of a Red Pill aware male, they turn into sluts even if they were with him for 5 years. Everything he’s taught her and trained her to be literally goes right out the window as soon as he relinquishes ownership.

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Anyway, those who regularly consume manosphere related content know that we consistently preach physical fitness, financial shrewdness, masculinity, and so forth. I’ve also stated that having access to higher quality girls is a side effect of living the Red Pill lifestyle….especially if you don’t make women your top priority which you absolutely won’t be doing if you’re truly living the Red Pill life.

While it’s great to fuck a bunch of hot sluts and have a few of them in your rotation, most veteran players would tell you that no matter how many females they’re fucking at any given time, they’d all like to have that one woman who is his and only his. A woman who takes care of him, a woman who, presumably, isn’t fucking anybody else, a woman who is committed to him and only him. I’m talkin’ about a main chick….a girlfriend...long term partner.

Having a woman like elevates a man’s life in ways that most of us are unwilling to admit. Sure we can all talk shit about how bitches ain’t shit or how we don’t need them and for the most part these assertions are accurate.

But let’s not kid ourselves guys. We all know that having that one female that we can count on elevates our lives. Yes, fucking sluts is great...nobody’s disputing that. But it would be disingenuous for any man to say he has no need for a dependable woman in his life. We all want a reliable, loyal significant other and saying otherwise would be lying to ourselves and everyone else.

So now the question becomes how do we find a woman girlfriend worthy? The answer is that We don’t. Those women are few and far between and just about all of them are either off the market or about to be.

The hard truth is that quality women these days are nowhere to be found and because of this, it’s on us to build and mold them into what we want and need as men. And don’t get it twisted guys, this is not easy to do. And the reason it’s not easy is because feminism has indoctrinated women so thoroughly that most of them WILL check out once you start the level of training I’m going to talk about.

What’s that mean? It means that you will fail with most if not every single woman you attempt to train in this way.

Now some men might ask “Okay Donovan, so what’s the point of training a woman if you know most if not all of them won’t be receptive to it?”

And my answer to that  would be “What’s the point of NOT training a woman and just waiting around for the inevitable ending of your relationship with her which will more than likely be caused by infidelity?”

See that’s the thing guys…..if a man isn’t proactive with a woman and TRAIN the tendencies she has that are conducive to bad behavior and subsequently and inevitably infidelity, women will, in fact, engage in bad behavior and cheat. It’s a mathematical certainty in 2018.  We see it all the time every day. A man who does not train bad behavior OUT and good behavior IN is a man who is destined for betrayal.

And I’ll go ahead and warn you….this will be some extreme shit. Most of you guys will think to yourself “Man, there’s no way I can do this. There’s no way a woman will ever subject herself to this level of training.” and most of you would be right.

But if you REALLY want the type of woman we all dream about...a woman who is loyal, honest, devoted to you and only you, and won’t cheat on you, then this is what’s necessary. Because while having a quality woman in your life is a lot better than the player lifestyle, the player lifestyle is FAR better than having a girlfriend or wife who makes your life a living hell.

Related content: 

How to groom a woman to be your main chick (Negromanosphere article)

Train your woman like you train your dog (Negromanosphere article)

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today guys I'm gonna talk about how to

train a female to be a quality woman now

notice I didn't say how to train a

female to become a quality woman I said

how to be a quality woman as in so long

as she is with you now when left of

their own devices we know that women are

self destructive meaning that if they're

not under the guidance of a red pillow

where a male they turn into sluts even

if they were with that guy for five

years everything that he has taught her

everything has everything he has trained

her to do and be literally goes out the

window as soon as he relinquishes

ownership anyway those who regularly

consume manosphere related content know

that we consistently preach physical

fitness financial shrewdness masculinity

and so forth

I've also stated in the past that you

know obviously having access to higher

quality girls is merely a side effect of

living the red pill lifestyle especially

if you don't make women your top

priority which you absolutely won't be

doing if you're truly living the red

pill life now well it's great to fuck a

bunch of hot sluts and have a few of

minyan rotation most veteran players

like myself would tell you that no

matter how many females they're fucking

at one time at any given time that we'd

all like to have that one woman who is

ours and only ours right a woman who

takes care of us a woman who presumably

isn't fucking anybody else a woman who's

committed to us and only us guys I'm

talking about a main chick a girlfriend

a long-term partner having a woman like

this gentlemen elevates a man's life in

ways that most of us are unwilling to

admit yeah we can sit here and talk

about how bitches ate shit or how we

don't need them and listen guys for the

most part these assertions are accurate

but let's not kid ourselves guys we all

know that having that one female that we

can count on elevates our lives yes guys

fucking sluts is great nobody's

disputing that but it would be

disingenuous for any man to say that he

has no need for a dependable woman in

his life okay guys listen we all want

reliable loyal significant others and

saying otherwise would be lying to

ourselves and everyone else I have a

regular viewer samarth duo who all he's

asked me this question on you know five

different ways on five different

platforms Donna

wouldn't you be happier if you were out

there fucking sluts no I grew out of

that and most end up to be honest with

you the reason why most men embrace the

player lifestyle is that's the only way

can get laid

see back in the day the way to get laid

was to get married that's not the case

anymore so men have to employ game in

order to get laid

so another question becomes how do we

find a woman who is girlfriend worthy

well the simple answer to that question

is that we don't women who are marriage

material those women are few and far

between and guys listen just about all

of them are either off the market or

about to be taken off the market the

hard truth guys is that quality women

these days are nowhere to be found and

because of this it is on us to build and

mold them into what we want and need as

men and don't get it twisted guys that

is not easy to do and the reason why

that's not easy to do is because

feminism has indoctrinated women so

thoroughly that most women will check

out once you start the level of training

I'm about to talk about today so what

does that mean for men well what it

means is that you will fail with most if

not every single woman you attempt to

train in this way guys now some of you

guys may ask ok Donovan so what's the

point of training a woman if you know

that most if not all of them won't be

receptive to it why even try and my

answer to that would be well what's the

point of not training a woman and just

waiting around for the inevitable the

inevitable end of your relationship with

her which will more than likely be

caused by infidelity cheating see that's

the thing guys if a man is if a man is

not proactive with a woman and trains

the tendencies that and trains the

tendencies that she has that are

conducive to bad behavior trains out

those tendencies and subsequently

inevitable infidelity women will in fact

engage in bad behavior and she guys it's

a mathematical certainty in 2018 we see

it all the time every day listen a man

who does not train behavior a man who

does not train bad behavior out and good

behavior into a woman as a man who was

destined for betrayal

now I'm gonna go ahead and let you guys

know okay this is gonna be some extreme

shit what I'm about to talk about is

some extreme shit and most guys will

think to yourselves after here in this

man there's no way I can do this there's

no way that a woman will ever subject

herself to this level of training and

guys guess what most of the time you'd

be right but if you really want the type

of woman that we all talk about in the

manosphere the unicorn the snowflake if

you want a woman who is loyal honest

devoted to you and only you won't cheat

on you guys this is what's going to be

necessary because having a quality woman

in your life is a lot better I'll put it

to you this way while having a quality

woman in your life is a lot better than

the player lifestyle the player

lifestyle is far better than having a

girlfriend or a wife who makes your life

a living hell now before you guys jump

to conclusions okay I am NOT talking

about turning a ho into a housewife all

right as any listen as men with red pill

awareness we know we know better than to

expect a woman in her late 30s who spent

ten plus years on the cock carousel and

been fucked by you know 300 guys so all

of a sudden become the world's greatest

wife and mother regardless of kind of

the kind of training she's been put

through okay now I have attempted to

train many many females in this way and

two and a half actually stuck to the

training the first one tried it she

agreed to it but it only lasted about a

week so that was the half the second one

got through it but she was a fucking

headache so I ended up dumping her after

eight months and the third one is now my

girlfriend my main chick so yes guys I

dude everything I'm about to tell you

guys I do this myself I'm not giving you

guys theories or ideas that I heard from

someone else or a website I'm not

talking about something that I'm gonna

tell guys to do that I don't do myself

no this is shit that I have done and I

still do myself I'm telling you guys

this shit based on my own experience

now before I get into the actual

training here there are three things

that must be in place before you can

start molding a woman to be a woman that

you can trust be a woman that you can be

proud of and will serve you as a man

number one your value must be high know

you don't have to be a 6 foot 4 inch

millionaire with movie star looks 3

percent body fat with washboard abs but

you can't be the fat guy who lives with

his mom and is based in the basement

spends all his money on junk food and

video games and $200 on vape pens ok

listen if a woman is gonna follow your

lead

you need to ex you need to increase your

value get in shape start exercising

financial shrewdness and learn how to

handle women which leads me to number 2

she has to trust you and no not in the

way that you were thinking if your value

is high enough guys she will learn to

live with you maybe having a side chick

or two so long as you don't throw it in

her face or get caught I just talked

about I think it was episode 215 it was

in the two 50s the 10 side chick

Commandments okay you refer to that

episode and you can enjoy the benefits

of fucking more than one woman without

any of the pitfalls that come with it

okay the trust I'm referring to is her

trusting that you were leading her down

the right path

she has to understand very clearly that

you know how to handle women that you

have a solid handle on your life she has

to know that your is she has to know

that your word is final if she doesn't

believe that what you are instructing

her to do gentlemen will benefit your

potential relationship with her and make

her a better woman she is not going to

stick around women need men who make

them better women and if she doesn't

trust you to do that she's not going to

trust you

the third element that has to be in

place is she has to want to submit to

you okay listen guys being dominant in

your dealings with women is necessary

but when good when push comes to shove a

woman will not do anything she doesn't

want to do okay guys you can instruct

her you can give her commands and so

forth but if a what if the female

doesn't have the desire to submit to you

she's not going to it's that simple this

is where the first two element are

important guys women completely and

wholly surrender to men that are high

value and that they can trust if you are

neither she's not going to want to bend

to your will she's not going to want to

be trained so when you have your shit

together okay you can select a woman and

then start training now as men we don't

have to be told what to look for and a

woman we naturally know the traits that

we're looking for in a female both

physically and mentally we don't need

anyone we don't need anyone to tell us

what to look for what we need to know is

what to stay away from which is why I'm

in the like I said which is why I

released a three-part series on

Donovan's den that exposes the behaviors

and habits of women as slut tells that

we that we as men would otherwise

dismiss as normal behavior episodes five

or I'm sorry volumes five six and seven

on Donovan's den you can find that on

Donovan sharp calm

anyway when you find a woman who doesn't

have these habits or behaviors who seems

to be a decent human being who could

potentially make a long-term significant

other you have to lay the foundation

that sets the tone for what your

expectations are now keep in mind guys

that most of the days women like I told

you earlier will not bend to this level

of dominance or training most listen

99.9% of girls I have done this with

either couldn't or wouldn't for one

reason or another and that is perfectly

okay guys listen being with me is not is

not for most women it's not easy you

just ask the dude ask my girlfriend and

all the chicks in Vegas who didn't make

the cut they'll let you know Western

culture has ruined women most women for

good they're damaged beyond their

damaged beyond all repair but guys if

you stay the course if you display an

uncompromising conviction in your

demands your candidate will take to it

so long as everything is in place so

let's go ahead and get to it

how to turn

how to train a female to become a

quality woman number one make her check

in regularly now when I was grooming my

main chick the one that I'm with now I

made her check in every half an hour

okay she would send me a selfie

sometimes with a designated code word

that I would give her at the top and the

bottom of every hour now the reason for

this is simple I needed to know where

she was and what she was doing if she

trusts and respects you and wants to be

with you guys she wants to let you know

where she is and what she's doing

I've done this with a lot of different

women guys like I said some take to it

most of them don't the ones that do

understand why I require this all right

and because I've laid the groundwork

properly they have no problem with it

but only if they want to be your woman

guys listen females know that if a man

of value has any doubts as to her

whereabouts and what she may be doing or

not doing dude she'll dude trust me

she'll be out of the running very

quickly they know that number two

objectify her you guys have heard me

talk about this countless times

today's pathetic men get almost overly

excited at the prospect of their wives

and girlfriends wearing lingerie every

six months it's fucking pathetic they

thought that the mouth and they brag to

their co-workers hey guess what Kim's

wear the red ones tonight with the snaps

it's on hashtag viagra guys these men

obviously have zero game and accepting

the fact that their women won't release

their inner sluts on the regular for

them it only makes things work women

want to be objectified guys they can say

whatever they want on social media but

they know the truth

they all want to see you drool at the

sight of seeing them like a piece of

meat

let understand this guy's females want

to be desired far more than they want to

be loved to make her feel desired make

her wear slutty clothes every night make

her wear slutty heels make her wear

slutty pants slutty panties make her

dude and make her dress and dance like a

stripper objectify her guys this needs

to be a regular thing not once a month

not once every two months a regular

thing two three four times a week she

needs to understand that if she's gonna

be your girl she's required to make

herself as desirable as possible as

often as possible and on command if you

tell her you're wearing the stripper

heels tonight with the tube top and

thongs tonight her response needs to be

yes sir

now as a supplement to this technique

make her sin you nudes on the regular

that's right

make her sends you dude make her send

you naked pictures listen making her

send you pictures of her ass her pussy

her tits throughout the day we'll drill

into her skull that she exists only to

satisfy you visually and sexually and

that any deviation or insubordination

will result in the end of her training

and subsequently her chance at a

relationship of consequence with you end

of story yes I did this with my main

chick send me a picture your tits she'd

go to the bathroom at work send me a tip

pic pussy pick a spic on command every

time now of course you have to be

dealing with you know scheduling things

you you don't want your woman up you

don't let your woman and you know up and

out of work every five minutes you got

to be reasonable with it but again she

needs to understand that she exists for

your pleasure if you want to objectify

her if you want to look at her tits if

you want to see again where she is or

what she's doing she needs to be able to

do that

number three and this is an important

one boys your expectations most men in

relationships today are scared to death

at the prospect of actually telling a

woman what to do and what he expects

from her okay

now this approach is completely wrong

guys because women want to know that a

man has the balls to tell her what he

expects secondly women yearn for a man

who has absolutely no qualms with

verbalizing his expectations and think

about it practically guys how is she

supposed to know how to keep you around

if you don't tell her how she's supposed

to know that

guys listen women have razor-sharp

instincts and are far more adept at

anticipating a man's needs we all know

this but they're not mind reader's guys

okay

it's on you to let her know what you

expect and that you are not flexible in

your expectations listen she may try to

negotiate with you she may try to get

you to compromise on some things but you

need to stand your ground because when

she does this that's a shit test if you

change your expectations or water them

down to make them easier for her to meet

she will continue to look for those

shortcuts and eventually things will go

sideways and she will lose respect for

you make your demands crystal clear and

guys do it with an unwavering conviction

and she will happily surrender to you

trust me on this one

next in line number four raise your

voice when necessary guys show me a man

who doesn't raise his voice at his woman

and I will show you a what I will show

you a man who does not have the respect

of his woman guys females want and need

to know that a man can grab his balls

and do what needs to be done in any

given situation which includes checking

her if she gets out of pocket women will

test a man often to make sure that he

still has the backbone when he he had

when he first approached her they do

this all the time yes they do this on

purpose and yes your response is key

showing a woman that you will not

tolerate bad behavior or disrespect by

raising your voice will keep her in line

and keep her respect no guys I'm not

suggesting that you turn into a hothead

with a short temper who's on the verge

of blowing his fuse at any given moment

not saying that at all listen a man has

to know and understand what situations

warrant aid a stern verbal reprimand in

which situations do not you don't want

to become a screamer but this goes back

to a woman trusting your judgment and

respecting you as a man if she knows

that you can and will raise your voice

when necessary she'll know that you were

not to be fucked with

she'll know he's raising his voice he

must be serious let me fall in line

women don't do that with men they don't

trust like I said element number two she

has to trust you guys

number five this is another important

one haul her out on slutty behavior let

me repeat that call her out on slutty

behavior gentlemen today's females are

largely unaware of the fact that most of

their behavior encourages male attention

now the reason for this is there

cultural norms wearing low-cut shirts to

work to show cleavage posting sexy

pictures on social media and

entertaining entertaining conversation

four men are obviously who are obviously

hitting on on her or guys those are all

those are all just normal behavior as

far as the average American female is

concerned but if you're grooming a woman

to be your girlfriend your main chick

she has to understand that a lot of her

habits are slutty whether she knows it

or not and if you do not correct these

habits they're eventually gonna bite you

in the ass now if she's headed to work

in a low-cut blouse make her change it

if she tells you about that yes dictate

what she listen you're not wearing that

to work change clothes

if she tells you about the dude who

chatted her up at lunch tell her to stop

the attention whoring guys as again as

men we inherently know the behaviors

that women display that could lead to

trouble guys there's no list

we just know your woman needs to know

too and you are going to tell her often

if she brags flippantly flippantly about

her horse behavior slut shame her to

tears listen do not let that bitch get

away with bragging about her slutty

behavior not on your watch fuck that

another thing I do in addition to this

is slut-shaming girls think it's cute

and attractive to brag about their their

sexcapades but I'm telling you right now

I waste no time in slut-shaming him I'll

refer to my main chick listen I'll

listen I'll tell you a quick story about

my main chick when we first started

talking she's to brag about guy she had

fucked in the past and guys listen man

dude my woman she ain't no snowflake you

don't think you think I didn't know she

was a raging hora before I met her and

got a hold of her listen this is this is

it this is what would this is what we're

dealing with right I'm not gonna sit

here and say oh yeah you know my my

girlfriend haven't notch count of five

dude my girlfriend used to be a slut she

used to be a hoe what else is new anyway

she's to brag about guys she's fucked

right at first I told her to stop she

didn't so then I told her look when you

talk about this stuff it makes you

unattractive it makes you look like it

makes you it makes you a bug reader

right I told her I imagine you eating

boogers when you talk about this stuff

stop it just try it listen trying to

lighten the mood right cuz listen I'm

already a heavy guy right like I'm like

I'm already on you all the time

I you know listen I didn't wanna I

didn't want to dig into her too much

didn't want to break her spirit she did

it one more time guys and when she did I

literally slut-shamed her to tears yes

she was crying her eyes out and I'll

never forget it was funny we were on the

phone and dude I probably went to maybe

a 10-minute tirade might have even been

longer than that and at the end she said

can I hang up I was like no I said fuck

no you're not hanging up I said I told

you countless times to stop this

nonsense and now you're gonna pay the

price

i slut-shamed her to tears and guys she

hasn't

dude she hasn't mentioned anything

remotely similar to it similar to any of

those situations since then this is a

year in change ago hauling your woman

out on horse behavior and making it

clear to her that you will not tolerate

her proudly telling you about her

hookups in the past will turn her into a

well-mannered woman in private and in

public slut-shaming listen don't get a

twisted guys slut-shaming your woman is

a good thing

number six and this is a big one this is

the biggest one

make her delete all social media let me

repeat that

make her delete all social media

gentlemen this is the one that separates

the girls who think they want to be your

woman from the ones who actually do it's

hard enough for a woman to meet these

expectations as it is but when you tell

the typical American female or the

typical female for that matter that she

has to delete all of her social media

accounts if she wants to be with you

you'll find out very quickly whether or

not she's serious about it guys Facebook

Instagram Twitter snapchat snapchat

whatsapp and all social media platforms

have quite literally destroyed today's

females guys listen not only are they

addicted to the constant validation they

get from posting pictures of themselves

a lot of affairs and a lot of hookups

start on social media and people act

surprised when they hear this wait what

she cheated on him where did she meet

the guy she cheated on him with oh my

god on Facebook he hit her on Instagram

well what did you expect to happen when

girls advertise themselves that's what

social media is listen listen the same

thing happens when a company advertises

their product on TV or the internet they

get customers if a girl advertises

herself on social media she gets

customers allowing your woman to be on

social media opens you up to getting

played without even knowing it until

it's too late

guys listen the smartphone has changed

the game as far as cheating is concerned

guys listen girls get away with cheating

with multiple dudes while their

boyfriends and husbands have zero clue

about it

that's not gonna happen on your watch

guys make her delete any and all social

media accounts and if she doesn't tell

her she could fucking walk dude listen

guys I've had girls try to negotiate

with me I had one girl asked if she

could delete Twitter but not Facebook I

told her look it's all or nothing she

wouldn't do it so that was the end that

was it

one girl asked me well how am I supposed

to keep up with my family and friends I

told her you can call and text just like

everybody else

again she didn't do it so she was gone

one chick tried to flip the script she

asked me if I was gonna delete my social

media and I told her no well she told me

that she didn't think it was fair guess

what she didn't have to ID so she well I

don't think it's fair you don't have to

think it's fair but she was gonna have

to delete her social media if she wanted

to stay with me she left guys this is

what happens guys listen I've had girls

laugh at me I've had him cussed me out

I'm Evan I've had them cry in front of

me begging me not to do this

Donovan please don't make this a

requirement I love you I want to be your

girlfriend please don't make me delete

social media I stuck to my guns guys

I've seen it and I've heard it all

you absolutely positively cannot waver

on this one guys because if you do I

guarantee you that that will be the

cause of the end of your relationship I

promise you if a girl wants to cheap

she's gonna cheat anyway with or without

social media but you're not about to

make it easy for her

okay you're gonna force her to be a

woman and come to you and say look

Donovan it's over

rather than branch swinging with some

dude who saw her tits on Facebook and

started and started started fucking her

and started fucking her behind your back

while you're at work dude fuck that

noise fuck that noise feminism is the

biggest reason relationships are in the

shit right now

social media a very close second she

either deletes all of her social media

accounts or she is gone

period

you guys have to remember like I said

earlier that the dude most women

99.9999% of women will not be up for

this level of training and listen that's

even if you're a high-value male ok dude

listen man when I was living in Vegas

I drove a 2012 Audi a5 pulley a fully

paid for I lived in a ridiculous Vegas

penthouse I paid $3,500 a month for I

was dressed to the nines

everywhere I go dude I had hot bitches

all over me all the time my value was as

high as it could have been at the time I

still had girls still had girls who did

not want to be subjected to this level

of training they swore up and down oh my

god Donovan you in dude so many girls

it's so funny so many girls always tell

me oh my god you're who I've been

waiting for are you real I feel like God

created you for me you can't be real

it's like you're two good guys I've

heard all of this but then when I put

their feet to the fire really you want

to be with me you love me I'm God's gift

to women as one girl told me really

prove it prove it

those are the two most powerful words

within any relationship oh my god I love

you so much really prove it I want to be

with you I want to be your wife prove it

this is the way to make them prove it

the bottom line guys

okay is that if a woman doesn't want to

submit to you she's not going to no

matter how much game or value that you

have okay these are not the women you

want to Train because there are fucking

wait guys I wasted so much time trying

to train the wrong bitches

like listen I didn't I didn't voice my

expectations up front now of course you

start training them you get right to the

end let them know and it's funny here's

how you do this

here's actually how I did this

when you start fucking a woman

inevitably I don't know you start

fucking a girl she's Irv she's your

she's her fuck buddy or whatever usually

about a month month and a half in they

start to want that exclusivity they

start to angle for that exclusivity

right inevitably they they start to ask

you questions like where is this headed

where is this going

what's our title right at some point

they are going to push for exclusivity

that's listen that's a mathematical

certainty that that's inevitable okay

every time this happens every time

without exception

well like are we gonna be boyfriend and

girlfriend I would tell them this you

are not ready to be my girlfriend oh my

god yes I am

no you're not ready why do you think I'm

not ready I do this that no I tell them

I'm not an easy got to be with I said

I'm telling you right now what's let's

keep things the way they are because if

you want to listen if you want me to be

exclusive to you I require a lot my

games tell girls listen man like my

require it's my requirements are

irrational like I have it like like

seriously like my requirements are

unreasonable well what are they yeah if

I feel you're ready I might tell you

about it but I don't think you are at

some point I have to tell them because

they keep pushing me

you

anyway

once it becomes clear that you were

dealing with a slut who has no intention

of settling down anytime soon guys

fucker a little while and then drop her

but when you do meet a female who makes

it clear through her actions and listen

and again remember what she says is

irrelevant a woman can say anything

right but listen that's red pill 101

don't listen to what she says watch what

she does okay it is important to be

ready and able to train her to be what

you want and need her to be as your

companion being ready means being

high-value showing her she can trust you

that's what being ready means with those

two elements firmly in place she will

surrender to you and from there you have

a solid foundation on which to build

your woman

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