The "date rape" myth
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Rape is a crime. But rape also is binary. It either happened, or it did not. The term "date rape" was made up by feminists to explain away the behaviors conducive to infidelity that inevitably lead to sleeping with a lot of Men. .
Make no mistake...rape is a crime. There are no two ways about it. But the term "date rape" becomes more convoluted by the day and women are increasingly weaponizing the very definition and using it against Men.
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Transcript:
couple weeks back I did a Twitter poll
and I asked you guys is there really
such a thing as quote date rape and I
give you a few alternatives to vote on
36% of you believed that date rape was
hamstring sluttiness or the title date
rape was women hamstrings lending is 28%
of you said that it was women absolving
their bad decision 6% of you said that
women used the term date rape to attempt
to reduce their knotch count and 30% of
you said that date rape is real today
I'm gonna talk about why there is no
such thing as quote date rape so let's
start with the diff with the definition
of date rape now before I get started
here's the thing and I'm gonna go ahead
and put this out there so that everybody
listening to this feminists and everyone
know and understand this if you try to
have sex with a female and she says no
stop or I don't want to do this or she
pushes you away puts up a fight etc and
you fuck her anyway you have committed
the crime of rape all right
having sex with a woman when she tells
you she doesn't want to is rape
plain and simple there are no two ways
about it now the definition of date rape
and I'm gonna quote it here the
definition of date rape quote forcible
sexual intercourse by a male
acquaintance of a woman during a
voluntary social engagement in which the
woman did not intend to submit to the
sexual advances and resisted the acts by
verbal refusals and denials or pleas to
stop and/or physical resistance the fact
that the parties knew each other or that
the woman willingly accompanied the man
are not legal defenses to the charge of
rape it goes on to say that although one
Pennsylvania decision ruled that there
had to be some actual physical
resistance now here's the definition of
rape it's as quote unlawful sexual
intercourse or any other sexual
penetration of the vagina anus or
of another person with or without force
by a sex organ other body part or for an
object without the consent of a victim
of the victim now I don't know about you
guys but it sounds like those
definitions are about the same the only
difference between the two seems to be
that the circumstances surrounding the
forced sexual intercourse and therein
lies the fallacy here's the thing guys
and and this is the main point of this
podcast episode rape is binary meaning
that it either happened or it didn't and
let me go ahead and just give you two
scenarios so that so that I can
illustrate this to you guys as clearly
as I possibly can scenario number one a
woman goes out on that date with a man
and he rapes her meaning he has sex with
her against her will which means she
said no stop I don't want to do this she
fights him back to get him off but he
fucks her anyway despite her clearly
communicating to him that she does not
want to have sex with him that's the
first scenario the second scenario a
woman is sleeping in her bed and when a
man she a man she doesn't know breaks in
and rapes her again meaning she didn't
want to have sex with him she
communicated this to you know her
assailant by telling him no stop
screaming for help fighting back what
have you in both scenarios gentlemen a
man forced himself on a woman when she
clearly told him she didn't want to but
he continued anyway okay guys that's
Reap all right it doesn't matter if her
date is the person who rapes her or if
it's a man she doesn't know rape is rape
if if a woman is raped by someone she
knows being a you know be it you know a
member of her family a friend
acquaintance that's not date rape it's
not acquaintance rape it's not friend
rape it's not friend date rape it's just
rape again just because she knows him
doesn't change the definition of the
crime guys it's rapist rape
if a woman invites a man into her house
for example and or if she goes home with
a tinder match or if she goes to a party
with a friend whatever the circumstances
may be if forced sexual intercourse
happens that's rape
there are no if ands or buts about it no
fancy titles no fuzzy definitions
he either fucked her against her will or
he did not okay there's no gray area
with this now I recently had a
conversation with a female friend of
mine a while back and that that
conversation is really what spawned at
this particular podcast episode and she
told me that back when she was 15 her
and her cousin who was the same age you
know who's the same ages are 15 and 15
year old girls you know they were at a
water park or a pool party or something
like that I don't remember exactly
anyway her cousin met some dude there he
was obviously older than they were and
throughout the day they flirted and and
you know they had fun all day well later
on in the evening the dude invites the
cousin says you know to his Jeep in the
parking lot where he allegedly raped her
now the female acquaintance who told me
this story called it date rape and I
told her she was wrong because it was
flat-out rape if her cousin didn't want
to fuck the sky but he fucked her anyway
and did it against her will meaning
again she told him no stop etc she was
raped
now she kept arguing that it was date
rape but never said it wasn't rape so I
finally asked her I said well why do you
call it date rape like why are you
giving it this title he forced herself
on him so that's rape right and she said
well no it's because she knew him and I
said look I said just because she knew
the dude doesn't make it any more or
less rape rape is rape like this is what
I told her
but here's the 11th the elephant in the
room guys that no one wants to talk
about or at least females would never
acknowledge females use the term date
rape to absolve themselves of any and
all responsibility nobody's gonna say it
and women sure shit aren't gonna fess up
to it but that's what they're doing when
they say date rape now again don't let's
understand me here guys just because a
woman you know
raises the skids to being raped doesn't
mean the perpetrator is any less guilty
she lets him in or goes to his place and
he rapes her that doesn't mean it's less
of a crime because she had a head in her
own rape all right
but the term date rape is used these
days too it seems that it's used to
de-emphasize a female's and responsible
decisions you know hooking up with a
dude and regretting it in the morning
that's not date rape all right what
happened was is she fucked a loser who
happened to be in the right place at the
right time he had the right lines and
she dropped her panties all right
getting blackout drunk and fucking a guy
is a date rape okay
that's her not knowing her alcoholic
limits and being character and being
careless careless hooking up with a guy
who dips before you wake up you know he
just gets up and leaves you never calls
her text again that's not date rape okay
that's a woman being used for a
one-night stand that she was complicit
in all right
again listen I'll say this again and I
cannot say this enough times if the sex
isn't forced it was not rape it was not
date rape it was sex between two people
that occurred that was not forced or
against anyone's will period
okay now this leads me into the next
part of the conversation I had with the
with the girl whose cousin was allegedly
raped in the in the end that you know
the the pool parking lot or whatever and
what she told me really got me thinking
she said and this really got me thinking
she said girls who claim they've been
date rape weren't forced to have sex
against their will per se she said and I
forgot how she put it but I'm
paraphrasing here she said that
oftentimes they kind of find themselves
in situations that are difficult to get
out of in terms of not wanting to sleep
with a guy you know things will escalate
you know they'll start you know make it
out or whatever and at some point the
girl decides she doesn't want to have
sex with him but does anyway because she
wants to be avoid she wants to avoid
actually being raped she said something
to the effect of you know a girl would a
girl would rather have reluctant sex
with a guy and just sort of you know
shrug it off as a bad decision
then getting fucked against her will
while screaming no fighting back telling
him to stop in other words and this
makes sense in other words she said it
was much less damaging on the psyche and
it made perfect sense I can't imagine
any woman wanting to wanting to have
what feels like forced intercourse I
mean it's it's a lot easier to live down
a sexual encounter that can be chalked
up as hey I fucked this guy but I didn't
really want to rather than going through
the you know emotional nightmare of
being held down and raped while
screaming and crying I mean that's
that's emotional suicide women who are
truly raped they are damaged goods
they're damaged for life it's not their
fault but that's just how it is but
here's the hard truth to what to what my
female acquaintance was telling me this
is this is the hard truth and I didn't
tell her this but you know the more I
thought about it the more because what
she said made sense but still if the sex
wasn't forced it wasn't rape so what's
the solution to this well guess what
feminism is the reason for this if not
for feminism most women would be married
with children they'd be stay-at-home
moms and when you're a stay-at-home mom
you're never in a quote situation that's
hard to get out of because you don't
want to have sex because the only man
that these one will be fucking are their
husbands feminism created hookup culture
guys feminism demonizes motherhood in
marriage it tells them to put off
marriage until the 30s tells girls they
can sleep with you know whoever they
want whenever they want to feminism
you know glorifies sluttiness so if
girls are out here fucking a bunch of
guys at some point they'd end up in a
difficult situation at least once it's a
mathematical inevitability and guess
what I don't feel sorry for them not one
bit no matter what and the reason I
don't feel sorry for them is no matter
what feminism and the feminist culture
tells women no matter how internalized
this flawed line of thinking is women
deep down inside they know that being
sluts and passing their pussies around
is not a good thing they can say
whatever they want but but but in their
ma likun in the deepest recesses of
their mind they know that there is
something inherently wrong with getting
fucked by a bunch of guys this is why
they women shame other women the most
okay the people who are doing most of
the slut-shaming are other women it's
also why they tell you it's also why
they tell you they've slept with seven
guys when she knows that number is
probably closer to 70 but she's not
really sure because she stopped counting
at 60 they know being slutty is wrong no
matter what they tell you yet they
continue to suck a dude's cock but they
met an hour ago they continue to hook up
with random dudes online you know
they're still going home with guys they
met at a bar and then they wonder why
they've been date-raped so many times
then this is funny my ex-wife even told
me that she was date raped this was
before I married her and even in my blue
pill mindset I didn't really know what
to think so I asked her simple happened
was he she ends up telling me that it
was her boyfriend I said what she said
yeah yeah he fucked me in the ass and it
hurt the next morning and to me the math
was simple I said well you dumped him
right she says well no I stayed with him
for a few months but I left him because
of that now just think about that for a
minute guys
a girl's boyfriend goes backdoor on her
fucks her in the ass she pays the price
the next morning because it hurts and
decides it's rape alright
she doesn't call the cops she doesn't
dump him she doesn't do anything guys
that's not date rape okay that's a
female who made the bad decision of
letting her boyfriend who I guess was
clearly inexperienced in anal sex fuck
her in the ass probably without any
lubrication or anything like that end of
discussion
all right but here's what my ex-wife's I
guess bogus ass rape story and the
poolside date rape story have in common
neither went to the cops okay women who
claim to have been date rape
don't go to the cops you know what I
don't blame them all right and the
reason for this is because they know
that if they go to the police and claim
that they've been raped even even though
the circumstances fit the bullshit
notion of date rape the cops are gonna
ask questions and when they start poking
and prodding their story a little bit
she's got one of two choices she can
either a lie and leave out the part of
the story where she has to admit that
the sex was enforced or that they you
know exchanged dirty texts after the
alleged rape or that they hooked up
several times before and in a lot of
cases after the rape or she can tell the
truth which she knows won't fly in a
court of law
even if they prosecute in the first
place chicks know that outside police
officers and DA's any ones that anyone
will buy their bullshit stories of date
rape without question but the thing is
guys as deep down they know they weren't
really forced to have sex okay and if
they weren't forced to have sex they
weren't raped and that's why they don't
go to the police because again they
don't go to the police but they're more
than willing to tell anyone who listen
that they've been date rape 27 times in
their life two guys see you guys see the
disconnect between rape and date rape
now here's the thing is it possible that
my friends fifteen-year-old cousin was
raped by the dude with the Jeep sure
okay is it conceivable that my ex-wife's
boyfriend or ex-boyfriend fucked her in
the ass against a roll of course okay
anything's possible but neither went to
the cops so I can neither give credence
nor can I nor can I call their claims
false because I wasn't there and they
didn't report it to the cops now here's
the thing on the flip side of this I am
fairly certain that a large you know a
large number of women who have who have
truly been raped probably don't go to
the cops you know and I'm sure there are
plenty of reasons but you know I'm not a
woman and I've never been raped so I
can't speak to why this is but one thing
I do know is that if they don't tell the
police they don't tell anybody they
internalize it they live with the pain
they live with the hurt and everything
that comes in the in the aftermath of
being forced to have sex with a man okay
but women who claim to have been
date-raped have no problem telling as
many people as possible that she was
quote degrade it doesn't take a rocket
scientist
the difference in the behavior of a
woman who has truly been raped and a
woman who just fucked a guy who is
irresponsible and fucked a guy and now
regrets it okay at the end of the day
fellas rape is absolutely wrong
it's absolutely against the law and
people who break this law should be put
in jail for a long time there's no
there's no question about that
but there simply is no such thing as
quote date rape no matter what the
circumstances are no matter what if a
man sources himself on a woman that's
rape okay if a man sleeps with a woman
who's drunk or she regrets it the next
day
that's floody behavior and again I'll
reiterate that even if a woman is
grossly irresponsible by dressing
provocatively going to a bar in a bad
part of town by herself and getting
shit-faced if a man rapes her he's still
guilty of the crime of rape but
absolving her from all responsibility
that's not doing her any favors
if I leave my card like I'll use this
example if I leave my card a bad part of
town with the doors unlocked and the
keys at the inn you know the keys to the
ignition I shouldn't be surprised if I
come back and my car is gone it's been
stolen no that doesn't make the car
thief any less guilty Grand Theft Auto
is a crime but had I never left my car
there my car would never have been
stolen I actually actually had my bike
stolen a couple months back literally
two weeks before I went on vacation in
Hawaii and guess what guys it was my
fault I stopped at a mall I stopped at a
Walmart that I knew was in a shady part
of town I locked up my I locked up my
bike with a below-average lock and when
I came out my bike was gone okay the
bike thief literally just cut right
through my bike lock and was out of
there I was in the store 20 minutes it
came out my bike was gone the bike thief
was wrong but guess what my dumb ass
should have known better all right women
know better they do but because they're
consistently let off the hook and
absolved of any and all responsibility
when it comes of any it when it comes to
any and all things of life they they
continue to put themselves in these
situations and end up finding themselves
having to explain that half the 267
dudes that she's fucked
raped her and that's how she sleeps at
night