The "date rape" myth

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Rape is a crime. But rape also is binary. It either happened, or it did not. The term "date rape" was made up by feminists to explain away the behaviors conducive to infidelity that inevitably lead to sleeping with a lot of Men. .

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Make no mistake...rape is a crime. There are no two ways about it. But the term "date rape" becomes more convoluted by the day and women are increasingly weaponizing the very definition and using it against Men.

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couple weeks back I did a Twitter poll

and I asked you guys is there really

such a thing as quote date rape and I

give you a few alternatives to vote on

36% of you believed that date rape was

hamstring sluttiness or the title date

rape was women hamstrings lending is 28%

of you said that it was women absolving

their bad decision 6% of you said that

women used the term date rape to attempt

to reduce their knotch count and 30% of

you said that date rape is real today

I'm gonna talk about why there is no

such thing as quote date rape so let's

start with the diff with the definition

of date rape now before I get started

here's the thing and I'm gonna go ahead

and put this out there so that everybody

listening to this feminists and everyone

know and understand this if you try to

have sex with a female and she says no

stop or I don't want to do this or she

pushes you away puts up a fight etc and

you fuck her anyway you have committed

the crime of rape all right

having sex with a woman when she tells

you she doesn't want to is rape

plain and simple there are no two ways

about it now the definition of date rape

and I'm gonna quote it here the

definition of date rape quote forcible

sexual intercourse by a male

acquaintance of a woman during a

voluntary social engagement in which the

woman did not intend to submit to the

sexual advances and resisted the acts by

verbal refusals and denials or pleas to

stop and/or physical resistance the fact

that the parties knew each other or that

the woman willingly accompanied the man

are not legal defenses to the charge of

rape it goes on to say that although one

Pennsylvania decision ruled that there

had to be some actual physical

resistance now here's the definition of

rape it's as quote unlawful sexual

intercourse or any other sexual

penetration of the vagina anus or

of another person with or without force

by a sex organ other body part or for an

object without the consent of a victim

of the victim now I don't know about you

guys but it sounds like those

definitions are about the same the only

difference between the two seems to be

that the circumstances surrounding the

forced sexual intercourse and therein

lies the fallacy here's the thing guys

and and this is the main point of this

podcast episode rape is binary meaning

that it either happened or it didn't and

let me go ahead and just give you two

scenarios so that so that I can

illustrate this to you guys as clearly

as I possibly can scenario number one a

woman goes out on that date with a man

and he rapes her meaning he has sex with

her against her will which means she

said no stop I don't want to do this she

fights him back to get him off but he

fucks her anyway despite her clearly

communicating to him that she does not

want to have sex with him that's the

first scenario the second scenario a

woman is sleeping in her bed and when a

man she a man she doesn't know breaks in

and rapes her again meaning she didn't

want to have sex with him she

communicated this to you know her

assailant by telling him no stop

screaming for help fighting back what

have you in both scenarios gentlemen a

man forced himself on a woman when she

clearly told him she didn't want to but

he continued anyway okay guys that's

Reap all right it doesn't matter if her

date is the person who rapes her or if

it's a man she doesn't know rape is rape

if if a woman is raped by someone she

knows being a you know be it you know a

member of her family a friend

acquaintance that's not date rape it's

not acquaintance rape it's not friend

rape it's not friend date rape it's just

rape again just because she knows him

doesn't change the definition of the

crime guys it's rapist rape

if a woman invites a man into her house

for example and or if she goes home with

a tinder match or if she goes to a party

with a friend whatever the circumstances

may be if forced sexual intercourse

happens that's rape

there are no if ands or buts about it no

fancy titles no fuzzy definitions

he either fucked her against her will or

he did not okay there's no gray area

with this now I recently had a

conversation with a female friend of

mine a while back and that that

conversation is really what spawned at

this particular podcast episode and she

told me that back when she was 15 her

and her cousin who was the same age you

know who's the same ages are 15 and 15

year old girls you know they were at a

water park or a pool party or something

like that I don't remember exactly

anyway her cousin met some dude there he

was obviously older than they were and

throughout the day they flirted and and

you know they had fun all day well later

on in the evening the dude invites the

cousin says you know to his Jeep in the

parking lot where he allegedly raped her

now the female acquaintance who told me

this story called it date rape and I

told her she was wrong because it was

flat-out rape if her cousin didn't want

to fuck the sky but he fucked her anyway

and did it against her will meaning

again she told him no stop etc she was

raped

now she kept arguing that it was date

rape but never said it wasn't rape so I

finally asked her I said well why do you

call it date rape like why are you

giving it this title he forced herself

on him so that's rape right and she said

well no it's because she knew him and I

said look I said just because she knew

the dude doesn't make it any more or

less rape rape is rape like this is what

I told her

but here's the 11th the elephant in the

room guys that no one wants to talk

about or at least females would never

acknowledge females use the term date

rape to absolve themselves of any and

all responsibility nobody's gonna say it

and women sure shit aren't gonna fess up

to it but that's what they're doing when

they say date rape now again don't let's

understand me here guys just because a

woman you know

raises the skids to being raped doesn't

mean the perpetrator is any less guilty

she lets him in or goes to his place and

he rapes her that doesn't mean it's less

of a crime because she had a head in her

own rape all right

but the term date rape is used these

days too it seems that it's used to

de-emphasize a female's and responsible

decisions you know hooking up with a

dude and regretting it in the morning

that's not date rape all right what

happened was is she fucked a loser who

happened to be in the right place at the

right time he had the right lines and

she dropped her panties all right

getting blackout drunk and fucking a guy

is a date rape okay

that's her not knowing her alcoholic

limits and being character and being

careless careless hooking up with a guy

who dips before you wake up you know he

just gets up and leaves you never calls

her text again that's not date rape okay

that's a woman being used for a

one-night stand that she was complicit

in all right

again listen I'll say this again and I

cannot say this enough times if the sex

isn't forced it was not rape it was not

date rape it was sex between two people

that occurred that was not forced or

against anyone's will period

okay now this leads me into the next

part of the conversation I had with the

with the girl whose cousin was allegedly

raped in the in the end that you know

the the pool parking lot or whatever and

what she told me really got me thinking

she said and this really got me thinking

she said girls who claim they've been

date rape weren't forced to have sex

against their will per se she said and I

forgot how she put it but I'm

paraphrasing here she said that

oftentimes they kind of find themselves

in situations that are difficult to get

out of in terms of not wanting to sleep

with a guy you know things will escalate

you know they'll start you know make it

out or whatever and at some point the

girl decides she doesn't want to have

sex with him but does anyway because she

wants to be avoid she wants to avoid

actually being raped she said something

to the effect of you know a girl would a

girl would rather have reluctant sex

with a guy and just sort of you know

shrug it off as a bad decision

then getting fucked against her will

while screaming no fighting back telling

him to stop in other words and this

makes sense in other words she said it

was much less damaging on the psyche and

it made perfect sense I can't imagine

any woman wanting to wanting to have

what feels like forced intercourse I

mean it's it's a lot easier to live down

a sexual encounter that can be chalked

up as hey I fucked this guy but I didn't

really want to rather than going through

the you know emotional nightmare of

being held down and raped while

screaming and crying I mean that's

that's emotional suicide women who are

truly raped they are damaged goods

they're damaged for life it's not their

fault but that's just how it is but

here's the hard truth to what to what my

female acquaintance was telling me this

is this is the hard truth and I didn't

tell her this but you know the more I

thought about it the more because what

she said made sense but still if the sex

wasn't forced it wasn't rape so what's

the solution to this well guess what

feminism is the reason for this if not

for feminism most women would be married

with children they'd be stay-at-home

moms and when you're a stay-at-home mom

you're never in a quote situation that's

hard to get out of because you don't

want to have sex because the only man

that these one will be fucking are their

husbands feminism created hookup culture

guys feminism demonizes motherhood in

marriage it tells them to put off

marriage until the 30s tells girls they

can sleep with you know whoever they

want whenever they want to feminism

you know glorifies sluttiness so if

girls are out here fucking a bunch of

guys at some point they'd end up in a

difficult situation at least once it's a

mathematical inevitability and guess

what I don't feel sorry for them not one

bit no matter what and the reason I

don't feel sorry for them is no matter

what feminism and the feminist culture

tells women no matter how internalized

this flawed line of thinking is women

deep down inside they know that being

sluts and passing their pussies around

is not a good thing they can say

whatever they want but but but in their

ma likun in the deepest recesses of

their mind they know that there is

something inherently wrong with getting

fucked by a bunch of guys this is why

they women shame other women the most

okay the people who are doing most of

the slut-shaming are other women it's

also why they tell you it's also why

they tell you they've slept with seven

guys when she knows that number is

probably closer to 70 but she's not

really sure because she stopped counting

at 60 they know being slutty is wrong no

matter what they tell you yet they

continue to suck a dude's cock but they

met an hour ago they continue to hook up

with random dudes online you know

they're still going home with guys they

met at a bar and then they wonder why

they've been date-raped so many times

then this is funny my ex-wife even told

me that she was date raped this was

before I married her and even in my blue

pill mindset I didn't really know what

to think so I asked her simple happened

was he she ends up telling me that it

was her boyfriend I said what she said

yeah yeah he fucked me in the ass and it

hurt the next morning and to me the math

was simple I said well you dumped him

right she says well no I stayed with him

for a few months but I left him because

of that now just think about that for a

minute guys

a girl's boyfriend goes backdoor on her

fucks her in the ass she pays the price

the next morning because it hurts and

decides it's rape alright

she doesn't call the cops she doesn't

dump him she doesn't do anything guys

that's not date rape okay that's a

female who made the bad decision of

letting her boyfriend who I guess was

clearly inexperienced in anal sex fuck

her in the ass probably without any

lubrication or anything like that end of

discussion

all right but here's what my ex-wife's I

guess bogus ass rape story and the

poolside date rape story have in common

neither went to the cops okay women who

claim to have been date rape

don't go to the cops you know what I

don't blame them all right and the

reason for this is because they know

that if they go to the police and claim

that they've been raped even even though

the circumstances fit the bullshit

notion of date rape the cops are gonna

ask questions and when they start poking

and prodding their story a little bit

she's got one of two choices she can

either a lie and leave out the part of

the story where she has to admit that

the sex was enforced or that they you

know exchanged dirty texts after the

alleged rape or that they hooked up

several times before and in a lot of

cases after the rape or she can tell the

truth which she knows won't fly in a

court of law

even if they prosecute in the first

place chicks know that outside police

officers and DA's any ones that anyone

will buy their bullshit stories of date

rape without question but the thing is

guys as deep down they know they weren't

really forced to have sex okay and if

they weren't forced to have sex they

weren't raped and that's why they don't

go to the police because again they

don't go to the police but they're more

than willing to tell anyone who listen

that they've been date rape 27 times in

their life two guys see you guys see the

disconnect between rape and date rape

now here's the thing is it possible that

my friends fifteen-year-old cousin was

raped by the dude with the Jeep sure

okay is it conceivable that my ex-wife's

boyfriend or ex-boyfriend fucked her in

the ass against a roll of course okay

anything's possible but neither went to

the cops so I can neither give credence

nor can I nor can I call their claims

false because I wasn't there and they

didn't report it to the cops now here's

the thing on the flip side of this I am

fairly certain that a large you know a

large number of women who have who have

truly been raped probably don't go to

the cops you know and I'm sure there are

plenty of reasons but you know I'm not a

woman and I've never been raped so I

can't speak to why this is but one thing

I do know is that if they don't tell the

police they don't tell anybody they

internalize it they live with the pain

they live with the hurt and everything

that comes in the in the aftermath of

being forced to have sex with a man okay

but women who claim to have been

date-raped have no problem telling as

many people as possible that she was

quote degrade it doesn't take a rocket

scientist

the difference in the behavior of a

woman who has truly been raped and a

woman who just fucked a guy who is

irresponsible and fucked a guy and now

regrets it okay at the end of the day

fellas rape is absolutely wrong

it's absolutely against the law and

people who break this law should be put

in jail for a long time there's no

there's no question about that

but there simply is no such thing as

quote date rape no matter what the

circumstances are no matter what if a

man sources himself on a woman that's

rape okay if a man sleeps with a woman

who's drunk or she regrets it the next

day

that's floody behavior and again I'll

reiterate that even if a woman is

grossly irresponsible by dressing

provocatively going to a bar in a bad

part of town by herself and getting

shit-faced if a man rapes her he's still

guilty of the crime of rape but

absolving her from all responsibility

that's not doing her any favors

if I leave my card like I'll use this

example if I leave my card a bad part of

town with the doors unlocked and the

keys at the inn you know the keys to the

ignition I shouldn't be surprised if I

come back and my car is gone it's been

stolen no that doesn't make the car

thief any less guilty Grand Theft Auto

is a crime but had I never left my car

there my car would never have been

stolen I actually actually had my bike

stolen a couple months back literally

two weeks before I went on vacation in

Hawaii and guess what guys it was my

fault I stopped at a mall I stopped at a

Walmart that I knew was in a shady part

of town I locked up my I locked up my

bike with a below-average lock and when

I came out my bike was gone okay the

bike thief literally just cut right

through my bike lock and was out of

there I was in the store 20 minutes it

came out my bike was gone the bike thief

was wrong but guess what my dumb ass

should have known better all right women

know better they do but because they're

consistently let off the hook and

absolved of any and all responsibility

when it comes of any it when it comes to

any and all things of life they they

continue to put themselves in these

situations and end up finding themselves

having to explain that half the 267

dudes that she's fucked

raped her and that's how she sleeps at

night

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