EPISODE #268: Why do black women discourage their black sons from dating white girls?

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It’s one thing for black women to hate white girls because we’re dating and marrying them more, but it is quite another for their SONS to make that choice and trust me, it pissed them off!

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We all know that black women hate them some white girls. They hate white girls with a passion. Now back in the day, they didn’t really pay ‘em any mind because they stayed in their world, and black women stayed in theirs.

But black women didn’t really start hatin’ on white girls when white girls started fuckin’ with black dudes because in the beginning, that was an outlier situation. White girls weren’t really checkin’ for niggas back then…..at least not as much as they are now. But what really started the hate for white girls was when black men started marrying and dating white girls when they became successful or rich.

The hate has exponentially increased now because everyday black men have started abandoning sisters for white girls. Now the reasons for this are vast and I’ve talked about it many times on my show and in the ebook Black Man’s Revenge: The Black Man’s Guide To Dating White Girls and Other Non-Black Women, but one thing I’ve really never delved into why MOTHERS of black boys don’t want their sons to date white girls.

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why do black mothers discourage their

black sons from dating white girls now

we all know that black women they hate

them some white girls they hate white

girls with a passion gentlemen now back

in the day they didn't really pay him

any mind because white girls stayed in

their world and black women stayed in

theirs but black women didn't really

start hating on white girls when white

girls started fucking with black dudes

because in the beginning that was the

out layer situation you very very rarely

saw white girls fucking with black dudes

right well I mean to be honest with you

white girls weren't really checking

finding us back then at least not as

much as they are now but what really

started to hate for white girls was when

black men started marrying and started

dating and subsequently marrying white

girls when they became successful or

rich that's what really that was the

genesis of the real hate now that hate

has exponentially increased now because

everyday black men have started

abandoning sisters for white girls we

see it all the time

now the reasons for this are vast and

you guys know that I have talked about

it many many times on my show I've even

written about it I did an e-book for

O'Shea called black man's revenge the

black man's guide to dating white girls

and other non black women but one thing

I've never really delved into is why

mothers of black boys don't want their

sons to date white girls I've never

talked about that it is one thing for

black women to hate white girls because

we're dating and marrying them more but

it is quite another for their sons to

then make that choice black women get

pissed when their sons date white girls

they can act like they don't they can

say they don't but we all know that they

do that is obvious so what I'm gonna do

is I'm gonna highlight four reasons

black mothers hate it when their sons

date white girls and why the real

reasons why they discourage them from

doing as much the first reason black

women discourage their sons from dating

white girls

is it highlights their failure as women

gentlemen it's an open secret that

today's black women just aren't feminine

this is why black men aren't fucking

with him anymore

they're mannish they're aggressive

they're angry right look there there

there are these angry people who have no

ounce of femininity in their veins it's

as though looking acting and moving like

a female is literally trained out of

them from birth guys men don't want non

feminine women and this is true across

all races this isn't just specific to

black guys this is just listen masculine

men want feminine women it's the yin to

the yang just like feminine men one

masculine women when a black son chooses

white girls he is indirectly saying that

he doesn't want to be with a woman like

his mother who is not feminine somewhere

along the way his masculine hard drive

responded to girls who acted like actual

girls and it didn't take him long to

jump ship now my high school sweetheart

was a white girl and interestingly

enough her father was an extremely

effeminate male all these years later I

now understand why she gravitated toward

black boys from an early age her

ex-boyfriend before me was black his

name was Jason it's the same reason

black boys gravitate toward white girls

when they're young it is a natural

reaction for boys to be attracted to

women like their mothers and and again

it's natural fur ferb fur for girls to

be attracted to men who are like their

father and it with regards to boys and

their mothers the mothers are the

biggest influence in the first decade

and a half of his life mothers are the

only example of what a female is to the

boy with shapes and molds his

preferences in female companionship if a

black boy is attracted to women who are

the polar opposite of his mother then

the mother has failed her son

let that sit for a little while let's

say that again if a black boy is

attracted to women who are the polar

opposite of his mother then that mother

has failed her son a mother is supposed

to be the picture of femininity and

grace and when she isn't her sons will

look for women who are nothing like her

the second reason black women

discouraged their sons from dating white

girls his public perception now as we

all know women are highly influenced by

public perception they would never admit

this out loud but females like the

females are hive minded creatures

whether they know it or admit it or not

okay a black mother with a black son who

date's a white girl is akin to the

Scarlet Letter in the black community

especially among women a black mother's

friends and a black mother's family will

wonder where did she go wrong with him

white fathers actually believe it or not

they faced the same ridicule but it's

not quite as vocal white fathers are

scared to death because if word got out

that his white daughter is fucking with

niggas he'll be labeled as the father's

daughter who dates who he'll be labeled

as the folk that that's the father's

daughter oh yeah she needs black guys

that's a Scarlet Letter in their world a

black mother doesn't want those

questions from friends and family they

don't want the furtive glances that come

their way

when their sons come to family

get-togethers or when their sons come to

family outings with his with this blunt

with his blonde hair blue-eyed

girlfriend they don't want that she also

doesn't want questions from her own

mother such as you need to set him

straight or what didn't you do or what

happened public perception is every bit

as responsible for black but for a black

mother's disdain for her son race

trading as anything else out there I can

assure you the third reason that white

that black mothers discourage their sons

from dating white girls and this is a

big one gentlemen she doesn't want him

getting validation from other black men

a black woman gentlemen will never

congratulate

a black man for dating a white girl

that's obvious but have you ever noticed

that black men rarely catch heat from

other black men for datin white girls

right right

likely like you will never ever hear

another black man tell that a black man

man why you dating white girls oh I'm

sorry you guys do well then those men

are the simps the only the only time a

black man will catch heat from another

black man for date with white girls is

because he's a sim

he's listened he's obviously he's

obviously got that female mindset oh my

god why but we got all these queens

available to us why you do use snow

bunnies why are you dating white girls

but to like-minded strong black men

you're never dude you're never ever

gonna hear Robert Griffin the third say

to Russell Wilson bruh

like why did you marry the white girl

now of course you know Russell Wilson is

not married to Ciara

but the point is is that black men never

ever down each other for datin white

girls black women don't want black men

of lifting each other why do you ask

because they want black men to be

dependent upon the approval of black

women this is why they do this the black

community is overrun by female

leadership and I mean listen for the

record no wonder the black community is

in the shit these days and it's gotten

to the point where the black community

cannot function without the black woman

it's almost a zola but it's almost as

though black it's almost as though black

women are a drug that the body is

addicted to it's harmful to the body yet

the body can't live without it make no

mistake gentlemen black men are 100%

responsible for the fact that the black

community is now overrun by women that's

right I said black men a hundred percent

responsible for for black women now

running the black community we're

responsible for that but that doesn't

negate the fact that it curled it that

it creates that it creates a

relationship of obligation and black

women know this black men admire black

men who date white girls and it starts

when they're kids when I was in high

school I got all kinds of love for my

friends for dating a white girl now of

course it also helped that she was

drop-dead gorgeous like dude my girl my

high school girlfriends name was Jill

long blond hair emerald green eyes

listen the girl was beautiful she was

fucking gorgeous

listen everybody wanted to get at her

white guys and black guys

mom doesn't want this okay she doesn't

want this because she wants her son to

get his validation from her and

subsequently black women which will

eventually lead him to seek out a black

woman to marry in order to get that

seemingly never-ending validation as a

man it is a vicious vicious cycle the

fourth and final reason black mothers

don't want their black sons to date

white girls and why they discourage it

she knows he won't come back

guys what women know what their

deficiencies are but the fucked up thing

is that they're proud of this shit

they're proud of their deficiencies they

characterize themselves as strong they

characterize themselves as independent

but deep down they know that there are a

little more than just one giant fucking

headache niggas ain't trying to put up

with a woman he has to compete with guys

wait listen man we ain't got the time

bruh okay we ain't trying to deal with a

bitch who's in our ear about this and

that all in the goddamn time listen

black women are never happy unless

they're unhappy now to be fair white

girls are competitive too but here's the

difference white girls are competitive

with white men because they have about

as much respect for them as black women

have respect for us you see you see the

dichotomy there you see the symmetry

there but white girls respect black men

which means the last thing they want to

do is to compete with us like black

women seem to like to do black black

mothers know that white girls are kinder

they know that white girls are gentler

they know that white girls are sweeter

they know white girls are more generous

and they know that white girls take care

of black men far better than black women

oh they know this they took all the shit

about white girls but they know the

score they know that white girls are

kinder sweeter and take better care of

us than they do they know this the black

mother knows that black women are that

black men are happier with white girls

they see it all around every day

she knows that if her son gets so much

as a taste of that white girl he's not

coming back to black girls ever she

doesn't want him to get a taste of that

ever cuz he ain't coming back there's a

pervasive saying among white girls once

you go black you don't go back whether

that's true or not is anybody's guess

listen white girls always try to come

back after the after fuck with niggas

for a decade and the reason why they do

is because they're done riding the Black

Hawk carousel but like I said I don't

know whether that's true or not I'm not

a white girl

but I've got another thing to counter

that and it's something that black women

are learning to live with this axiom and

it's a hundred percent true once he goes

white he's out of sight any black mother

who is listening to this knows this

assessment is accurate you black mothers

watching this you guys and know this is

accurate but like everything else that

is staring them right in the face they

will deny it out of sheer stubbornness

and pride interestingly enough those are

the same reasons they can't lock down a

black man of value anymore that's how it

works sometimes

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